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yo, we need to remember to take care of ourselves

because there's times where we kind of forget to like, live. sometimes we'll get in a rut in life, and worrying about our own lifestyle ends up falling to the wayside.

fun fact: that's not healthy.

your body and mind needs a little pampering sometimes. they may be able to run themselves for days on end, but they're gonna need some maintenance eventually.

so. here's some help for ya. i've scrounged around the endless void known as pinterest  (while also getting distracted by oreo recipes, obv) to collect a list of some pretty great ideas. just a few little things that help make life a little better for the life God's given you.

now, not everything is going to always work out for you, and that's okay. just take it one day at a time and remember that it's all absolutely worth the effort. :)

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+ washing your face everyday - esp with some fancy cleanser that helps with whatever you need (sensitive skin, acne, dry skin, etc)

+ finding your fashion style - discovering clothes that make you look and feel amazing boosts confidence out the wazoo, man

+ going to sleep at an insanely early hour - and maybe not even bother setting an alarm, because waking up naturally feels so freaking calming in the morning???

+ making a gratitude list - you can make it all pretty with fun doodles and stickers and markers and ahhhh

+ daily devotions/prayers - they really make a difference and put everything into perspective

+ balancing your diet - there's plenty of ways fruits and veggies can taste good without drowning them in sugar (this foodie has loads of recommendations if ya need them ;))

+ acknowledgeing your strengths - ya'll have amazing talents and personalities that need to be addressed mkay??

+ drinking lotsa water - keep in mind that your body is 70% water and the amount of intake drastically changes your energy levels, fren

+ walking barefoot outside - it's actually been proven that walking barefoot on the ground helps with brain development and peacefulness!!

+ exercise of any form - just a simple walk around the block can release positive hormones and help you feel super refreshed :)

+ learning when to say no - sometimes you reach your limit, and people need to learn how to not constantly take advantage of you

+ having a good cry every once in a while - it's not good to keep everything closed off all the time, girl. sometimes it's okay to feel it all at once, because then you can recognize what you're struggling with and figure out how to deal with it

+ finding a creative outlet - self-expression gives your brain a bit of a break from all the overly-complicated mish-mosh of life so go throw an egg on a canvas and call it art

+ stargazing and/or cloudwatching - just lie back, relax, and marvel at God's creation

+ stretching before bed/after you wake up - muscles get stiff and tired often, so give 'em a hand every once in a while

+ genuinely laughing - tim hawkins, script not found, and studio c are some great comedy options on youtube to have a good giggle with

+ taking an electronics hiatus - there's moments when we let the digital life take over, and those are the times when we really need to unplug for a bit (24 hours works just fine)

+ watching the british baking show/planet earth - seriously, though. if these shows aren't the most calming series on the planet (oops bad pun), i dunno what is

+ opening your windows - when the weather is up for it, a gentle breeze or the drizzle of rain relaxes a person in more ways than one

+ washing your sheets and blankets - and when you climb into bed after a stressful day? pure. bliss.

+ lighting some yummy candles - always have and always will love a good candle

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that's all for now, but i'm probably gonna think of some more later on. just remember that it's okay to spend time on yourself, okay? your wellbeing is important, yo, and not everyone can give it to you.

love ya'll <333
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life gets weird.

life can get so weird and messy and chaotic and i don't even know anymore. sometimes it scares me with how different everything can get from what it was before. i've ended up feeling changed by such an unusual amount from who i used to be.

is that normal?

to look back at previous years like it was all a totally opposite life from now? like you were such a different person? because that's what i'm experiencing right now, and it is w e i r d, man.

so much of the lifestyle i grew up with and learned to love is not part of me anymore. i was such a happy-go-lucky kid and now, i don't know, it's just not the same. i still love to laugh, i still love to be happy, but... i don't feel happy.

i feel confused.

my world has flipped a complete 180º, and now my brain is stuck in a blender, not knowing what to think anymore. i feel like i don't belong anywhere anymore, and that's caused my whole lifestyle to take a turn for the worse. it's not a healthy one, and i don't take care of myself. everything's so new and strange and different and i guess i'm having a tough time getting used to it and figuring what to do.

and this blog? the whole reason why i rarely posted or felt like i had to constantly change the appearance was because i only cared about the followers. i was worrying too much about that little number on the right by trying to look like a funny, popular teenager that was having the time of her life. but i'm not, and that kept me from using this space as somewhere i could really feel like me.

so you know what? i'm done with all that. i'm done with trying to look like someone i'm not. i'm done with not feeling welcome in the space i created by myself, for myself.

i've been told that even if it isn't all pleasant topics, it's still a good idea to write everything down. to get all of the hairy mess out of your head and into words, especially if it's on a surface where other people can relate or help you feel welcome. because that's how you heal. that's how you get your thoughts organized and your life figured out--or at least more so than it was before.

and that's my plan.

now you, as a reader, don't have to keep following me if you followed me before. no hard feelings, i promise. but if you're willing to stick with me through this journey, i couldn't be more appreciative. <3 i don't know how much this corner of the internet will differ from what it was, but it's definitely not going to always be so happy-go-lucky. everyone has their rainy days, right? and i want, no, i need a place where i can just let it all out, the good and the bad. a little messy, yes, but this is my life.

this is me.
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this song was kind of the inspiration for the name change, and i just ugh. i really like it. one of the best songs when you're in need of a boost, hands down.


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